I don’t like my dads girlfriend What should I do?
iLostMaikee Asked: I don’t like my dads girlfriend What should I do?
I liked my dads girlfriend when I first met her she was fine and there was no reason not to like her then, I met her kids she has two 3 year old twins and 2 other daughters that she had taken away by DHR.
That didn't bother me much until she got put out of her God mothers house and she went into the "Salvation Army"(SA) until she could find a place well she found one but she kept getting wrote up at the SA for bringing in outside food.
So my dad let her stay with us for what he thought was going to be a week or so but turned out to be 2 months.This is when I started not liking her she is a bad mother her kids are also bad.
She hogs the bathroom no matter what time when she has no job and I have to go to school in the morning, she always follows my dad like a little puppy.
She peels dry skin off her feet a lot and its sounds really gross and loud sense she has eczema she scratches at night and its really loud her hair is like really short and nappy and she doesn't take care of herself she wears the same clothes sense shes poor and all her pants sag she never pulls them up.
She repeats what everyone/everything is saying if its a person or on the tv.
My dad bought her 2 toddler beds and 2 mattresses and a table but he cant afford to buy me pads and tampons.
Also one time we were in the emergency room cause i was sick and i couldn't move my neckand he knew this but he still made me take my iPod out so he could call her cause she wanted to see how i felt.
When he finally called her they didn't even talk about me and she always takes forever doing everything even just talking and she never gets anything right
shes smart but stupid at the same time
she told her kids no one would love them because they don't want to be loved just because they were being bad
She always calls him when we are spending time alone and she always jumps in our conversations when me and him are talking.
Also she repeats everything she says twice and says thank you for stupid reasons and she is always laughing or chuckling even at something simple like "well I forgot the soup *chuckles*"
She is so annoying what should I do?
Firstly, we don't need to hear your life story.
Next, if you have to live with her, avoid her.If you don't have to live with her, move out and get your own place.Easy.
Are you of age to do that?
I am sorry that you are stuck in such a bad environment, which was made by your father when he allowed her into his house. There isn't much you can do, but honestly, she sounds like a real bum. There is no excuse for not being neat and clean. You're being exposed to her bad habits.I would try to get your dad alone, maybe go to lunch with him, and tell him how you feel.She might even try stealing. Or maybe you can get a relative to intervene.
can you live with your mother?
also it's unclear what your age is….
ask your dad to spend some father daughter time together and let him know you are not trying to upset him but you don't understand why this woman is in the house and what your concerns are and things you hear her say but don't yell at him b/c adults talk
tell him you have needs too and how you feel forgotten and that your sure he doesn't do it purposely but it's happening
i understand its difficult when someone New stays with u who s really different from u .. But i would suggest try to give her sometime , tell her things very decently what u really don't like , try to spend some Gud time with her as Whats more imp s to know her nature and character than her habits .. If she comes when u both are alone she may be wants to show that she wants to be a part of family .. And try to ignore some of the things u can't expect her to be exactly the way u are everyone s different.. Respect her for her nature don't judge her for her habits
lol i have almost the exact same thing i just always stay in my room and read my books or go on my laptop it`s a little easier for me tho probably…my dads girlfriend is sooooo annoying and she tries to buy my love with nailpolish, (i am a freak i know I do my nails like everyday!) it doesn`t work exactly haha well just find a quiet place in the house or outside somewhere not so far away and just hang out there and do what you love to do most (with me….its doing my nails XD)
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